Dad Advice

Father’s Day is a special day for me –  thinking of Dad, and being a Dad and a Grandpa. Let’s face it, Dads are amazing – loving, insightful, strong, patient, friend, counselor, consoler, and so much more. Some of the best memories I have of my Dad are the advice he gave me over the years. Sometimes it was about character, sometimes it was about business, sometimes it was just about “being a good man”, not giving up, and other times it was centered on love, respect, and laughter. I can’t pick specific times he said his “words of wisdom”, but I know he passed them along – sometimes without ever speaking, simply by his actions and deeds. Oftentimes, I reflect on something I’ve done or said, and simply say, “Thanks, Dad.”

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Something out of Nothing

The other day, I was out on the shop floor ”visiting” with my team (actually simply being nosy!) when I came across an empty box – a container of “nothing.” Once again, my amazing team had completed another wonderful PIA (pain in the @%$) Job for a very good customer – something that always puts a big smile on my face. After finishing my walk-about, I headed back to the office to get back to the next task at hand and continue looking out at beautiful Lake Erie. Remembering the empty box on the shop floor, it got me to thinking about “nothing” – and common nicknames we have for nothing – zero, zilch, nada, zippo, goose egg, squat, bupkis, nix, nil, and love (tennis), and of course, the old Seinfeld episodes came to mind as well (the show about nothing). Jackie and my girls often tell me that my mind works in mysterious ways (when they’re being kind!) Of course, I had to jump on the internet and start digging, trying to learn a bit more about nothing, asking myself, “Is there something behind nothing?” WOW! What a history, reaching way back in time to cultures and peoples of ancient times from across the world. Here’s some history and trivia I think you’ll enjoy, about nothing (that was fun to write!). Enjoy the journey (and yes, there is a song you may remember about zero) and a great Seinfeld clip. Enjoy!

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Dreamy Satisfaction

Like most of us, I’ll admit that sometimes I get a tad bit frustrated. Sometimes it’s the little things – can’t find my keys, waiting in traffic a little more than I want, or just having a day that just seems out of balance. To break the frustration, I like to just laugh out loud at the silliness of it all, put my head down, and plow through the feeling. Some days I‘m just a little off – I  do realize this is surprising to those who know me well!– and as Mick Jagger told us, he too just couldn’t get any “satisfaction.” Today marks the day (over 60 years ago – yikes!) when Mick and his band of British crooners took the US by storm, releasing one of their most popular hits: (I Can’t Get No) Satisfaction. Now, I’m gonna guess a few, if any, readers of this blog haven’t heard this tune. It’s driving guitar riff, and simple lyrics, are sort of locked in our heads, and we just sing along every time it comes on the radio – I am only allowed to sing this when in the car by myself or in the office, really early in the morning when no one else has to suffer through my “singing” performance. I did some digging to find out more about the song, its history, and impact on Rock N Roll and the “Stones” breakthrough in American culture. Be sure to listen and enjoy the song – the first is when they are just kids lip-syncing on TV, and the live version shows the energy of the song in 2013. Enjoy!

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Holy Cow!

I was at a Guardians game the other night, and watching a ball carry easily into right field, I thought to myself, “holy cow, he hit that one a ton.” After the inning ended, I quietly wondered where holy cow came from—and why I chose those words. Does the phrase have ties to a specific religion or culture? Is it just a random combination, or is there really a specific cow out there I should know more about? Then, of course, my mind wandered to Holy smokesHoly Toledo, and of course Holy Moly and my personal favorite  Holy Mackerel! (yes, I am a man of deep thoughts – you can ask anyone who knows me). Searching online, I learned that holy cow is a relatively late entry in a long line of similar phrases used to express surprise. For example, holy Moses dates back to the 1850s, according to the Oxford English Dictionary, while holy smokes and holy mackerel were in use by the 1890s. These expressions are examples of minced oaths—replacement phrases used to avoid profanity or direct religious’ invocation…something Jackie compliments me on! One of my “go to” expressions in front of the grandkids is “dang!” So, for those who do their best to control their language, here’s a fun recap of enthusiastic expressions. Special thanks to Google, Wikipedia, YouTube, Monty Python and of course Batman and Robin. Enjoy.

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We Honor. We Remember

Memorial Day for me is a special day, filled with honor, reflection and respect. I have the gift and privilege of living in a small community tucked along Lake Erie just west of downtown Cleveland. Nestled on the shore, it is a delight to feel the fresh breeze and enjoy the sunrises, sandy beach and sunsets. On Memorial Day, things do not begin with noise. It begins with a shared stillness that binds us together as a community. 

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Dear…

Letters and Thank You notes. At times, they feel like the “proper” thing to send, while other times they are just what’s needed for a business inquiry or transaction. So many times, throughout the day, I find myself jumping on my email account, banging out some correspondence, reading a few text messages from family and friends, and then returning back to work, never really realizing the ease and power of communications we enjoy today. Never disconnected anymore, I was thinking about what it must have been like back in “the old days” when people could only write letters to stay in touch with on another. Reading letters from famous people in history tells so much about what was going on at the time, and the heartache and thoughts facing the writers – one of my favorites is when Grace Bedell told Lincoln to grow a beard, to hide his thin face – 1860 – and how she’ll vote for him.

I can remember writing letters almost daily to Jackie during the summers while we were “courting”, with the best part being receiving letters back from her almost daily as well! Of course, the classic: “How are you? I am fine” opening. Here’s some fun info about letters, format, etiquette, and where the letter format likely evolved from. Be sure to send me a “thank you” note or email if you enjoyed the post! Enjoy!

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Happy Mother’s Day, Mom!

Thanks Mom

When God created Mothers,

He had great things in mind.

She had to be warm and strong,

Pure of heart, funny, caring and kind.

Patient, brave and understanding too,

All embraced in love combined.

Of all the Mothers on God’s great earth,

I feel so blessed you are mine.

Happy Mother’s Day to ALL Moms – We LOVE YOU!!

 

A Capitol Idea

If you’ve ever wanted to have a fun vacation, visit Washington D.C., and especially visit the U.S. Capitol Building. The first time I saw it in person, I have to admit it was a breathtaking moment: that giant grand dome rising above the National Mall, white marble, long steps majestically framed by a blue sky and fluttering flags. When Jackie and I took the girls to DC to explore, we made sure to visit the capital. We were able to witness a vote taking place – (fascinating to see the various congress people meandering in to place their vote, then leave – and watching the tabulations taking place on the wall was very interesting as well). Historians say the US Capitol Building is the centerpiece of American history, drama, innovation, politics, art, personalities, and quirky architectural decisions – a place where the ideas and contradictions of the nation are literally set in stone. Did you know, our American flag flies continuously at the east and west bases of the dome — day and night since World War I. Flags over the Senate (north) and House (south) wings fly only when the chamber below is in session, and hidden flagpoles handle special ceremonial requests. I did some digging (SO MUCH info!) about this great building, its varied history, and quirks you might find interesting. Be sure to get a trip in to visit, and think about our great nation, and all that’s come before us. Enjoy!

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Now That’s Symbolic

The other day I was plugging my cellphone in to recharge it and noticed the USB icon on the wall end – it’s sort of a pitchfork thing, with arrows and circles and lines. I wondered why it was designed like that, and who came up with it. The more I looked around, the more I noticed different icons, especially on my keyboard. Big picture – as our modern technology has progressed from vacuum-tube computers that fill entire rooms to super-fast smartphones, the computer industry simultaneously developed a whole bunch of iconographic symbols. Of course, some of the old classics are our favorites (@%$!) – as we use them in our promise to you… We Love Your PIA (@%$) Jobs! Today, digital-age hieroglyphics are on computers, laptops, gaming consoles, smartwatches, and cell phones – but have you ever wondered where they came from? (ok, I do…). Here are the stories behind popular electronic icons and symbols you probably see every day, but never really think about. For those who know me, I have been known to ask, “What’s that?” a lot,  then proceed to push a button or click an Icon. Enjoy!

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Hey Lefty

Ok, so I’ve heard of Southpaws and Lefties – but new to me – Mollydookers, Porty, Goofy-footer, Cacky-handed, Corrie-fisted, Chickie-paws, Cuddy-wifter, even sinister, may be a bit too much!! There’s no shortage of nicknames for the left-handed people of the world, even if much of everyday life seems to have been designed without them in mind. Being a lefty myself (I must admit I’m actually ambidextrous, which comes with its own challenges), I can never try out my golfing buds’ new clubs, and having to deal with most golf courses designed for righties!  For me, there are some advantages – I can eat with either hand (something I’m very good at!), I get to explain away my horrendous handwriting, and have been blessed with lots of creativity – part of being left-handed! According to experts (Laterality Experts: researchers focusing on the functional specialization of the brain, including hand use), hand preference remains an intriguing puzzle for scientists, with researchers still questioning why a small percentage of people favor their left hand over their right. This quirk has caused lefties to be saddled with historical baggage and ongoing inconveniences. While some people do some things “righty” and some things “lefty,”  Jackie and I are both either ambidextrous or simply “unique”. Experts are still working to uncover the origins of this unusual hand preference – one of our daughters is a true lefty! In the meantime, here are some curious facts about left-handed life. Enjoy!

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